It's no secret that flirting at an early stage means for women only one thing: to know what you’re doing and start a conversation to find out what kind a person you are. Flirting for them is a stable state of mind and develops in two directions: to say and do some things so that a man came to the conclusion who a woman really is. Here is a list of the most common questions, asked by a woman to herself:
- What does he do?
- Is he a cheerful one?
- Is he an ambitious man?
- Does he value sensual pleasures to be interesting in bed?
- Will it be awkward to him if a girl introduces him to her friends?
- Is he a gentleman?
- What is more important for him: to be reliable or cheerful?
Women in dating with men have rather the investment approach: before closely acquainted with a guy, they carefully study all the details. This feature is associated with the desire to see the future of her relationship.
Women hate to waste time on a relationship that afterwards bring them pain. That’s why women are so fond of all kinds of horoscopes and fortune-telling, because they promise interpretation of hidden events and insight to the future.
How to understand women’s intentions
Telling of life stories and the correct interpretation of woman’s words will help you to understand what she really wants.
The right approach will create you all opportunities for the familiarity with a girl. To accomplish this, follow these tips:
- Tell to a girl any life story - let she’ll understand what kind of human you are. It should be a real personal story, not just to support the conversation.
- When you’ve listened her stories, find out which person she is and what her personality type - select the brightest her highlight and tell her, that you respect these qualities. No need to complicate, you can start with a simple "I think this your hobby is really outstanding". A woman will surely love such a compliment and it will help you to build an emotional connection.
- When she tells you about herself, try yourself to grasp the meaning of her words. If a girl says she loves to travel do not tell her your travel story. Instead, ask if she likes the risk. Rate what the girl tells you, keep her words and you will quickly find common ground with her.
- After establishing an emotional connection, it’s important not to overdo. If she likes to risk, you shouldn’t tell that you knew or assumed such quality in her; otherwise it would be a mistake and she (most likely) will tear off the conversation.
- To interpret her words correctly, you can also turn to her with jokes. For example, if a girl says that she’s studying, but doesn’t say what namely she’s studying then you can say as a joke: "I think after graduation you’ll become a secret agent. How do you see in the superspy image?" Remember, when communicating online, that such jokes may be unsuccessful. Besides, the matter is complicated, when across cultural or language differences. For example, women from Russia are often very serious – it’ll not be easy to amuse them. Act carefully, be creative and you’ll easily understand the true meaning of a woman’s words.
Once you get to understand the nature of flirting and correctly interpret words during a conversation with a girl, you’ll be able to carry on a conversation on a variety of topics easily. In this way you can get accurate information about woman’s nature and habits, and also to establish a deep emotional connection with her.